Agony Aunt? no its just the way I walk!
By in News on 10th January 2008Agony Aunt? no its just the way I walk!
OK, no one has been brave enough to send me a problem, or perhaps this web site is read by well adjusted and normal people who have secure, loving relationships, whatever! So I have gone to www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/deidre/article272093.ece, which has not let me down (The Sun rarely does) Here is the problem…
“My girlfriend said that sex between us was the best that she did things with me she could never do with anybody else - but now I have discovered she’s got another lover as well as me.
She is 32 and married. I met her at a club a few months ago. I am 27 and single.
I didn’t want to get serious but she said I was the best thing to happen to her in 15 years. She was unhappy in her marriage but holding on because of her children, who are eight and six.
We had a good sexual relationship, we even did it in public places, and she had her first orgasm for nine years.
She got pregnant and I persuaded her to have a termination even though she wanted the baby badly, because of the effect it could have on her children. Things have been different since.
A couple of weeks ago she told me we should give it a break, she can’t handle her feelings for me. Little did I know she was already sleeping with another guy.
It was a real shock when she told me. She said it started as a game but now she has started to have emotional feelings for him. However, she says he doesn’t like sex and I am still the best.
She is short with me every time we talk now. If only I could persuade her to see me, I know I could convince her that the chemistry is still there between us.”
You can read Deidre’s advice on the above link, and there is also a good visual representation of the problem (semi naked chick on top of semi naked dude), but I am going to offer some little nuggets of wisdom myself. Firstly, as she was married, and you slept with her knowing this, it should not really surprise you that she is a skanky ho. This should have been a given! If you needed any further evidence of the skankiness of your Belle, the fact that she ‘did it in public’ (and I’m presuming the ‘it’ was sex, and not, say, defecating, in which case even more proof) with you should have provided this train of thought, “Wow, she’s a bit of a go-er…possibly a bit of a ho as well?” Finally, if a girl, of questionable virtue, says to you “we need to give it a break, I don’t know if I can handle my feelings for you”, you are being fed a line and she is playing ‘hide the sausage’ with someone else, this should not come as a shock. Get a grip Sunshine. Hope I have helped.
January 11th, 2008 at 1:53 am
yeah I think its just time to move on…if she is not happy with the man she is married what is more a proof that she will be happy with you ?
Its just about getting over it…there is “lot of cheese” out there..afterall “who moved my cheese”