Ok, here goes, another vignette from Deirdre at www.thesun.co.uk,

My girlfriend has had sex with another man but isn’t interested in sex with me.

I’m 27 and my girlfriend is 26. We’ve been together five years. We’ve had a few problems but I thought our relationship was heading in the right direction.

Then I started noticing oddities and things just didn’t add up. In the end I checked her mobile and sure enough found a text from another man saying it had been “so amazing”.

Being 99 per cent sure she’d cheated I checked her emails too. It seems that while I’ve been out at work he’s been round here sha**ing her. They’d then gone so far as to email and joke about it.

I doubt this was a one-off and I’m unable to understand why. We’ve not had much sex recently as she’s never in the mood. She’s always had a low sex drive since I’ve been with her so why sleep with another man?

I’ve always considered myself unselfish during sex and I also do more than my bit around the house. She’s asked me to forgive her but I’m completely heart-broken. I can’t look at her without getting images of this guy in my head.

I really wanted to spend the rest of my life with this woman but she’s made it feel impossible. Now she’s asked if she should move out but I just don’t know the answer.

Short answer, ditch the whore. Long answer, well, how can I put this? Your Lady (and I use the term in the loosest of senses), who apparently did not have a high sex drive, was making ‘the beast with two backs’ with someone else, and even worse (if anything can be even worse) was having a good laugh about it via email. The truth is probably that she finds you, and your personal habits, personally repellent, perhaps you clean your toenails in bed or something, and so my real advice is this. Ditch her, Get a Haircut and a shave, and hit the singles bar. Good Lord Man grow a pair, only a century ago you would have been well within your rights to challenge the dirty sod who’s been doing the vertical tango with the missus to a duel to the death (LEGAL NOTE: Duels to the Death are not a good idea, especially if your sword play is substandard.) Take care of yourselves, and each other.

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