Rule #1 For Everything You Do

If you read either Shoemoney.com or JohnChow.com, you’re probably aware of the little brewhaha they have with Invesp.com. If you’re not up to speed, the quick and dirty story is invesp.com started an informal survey last year of the Top Online Marketers of 2008. They give you a list of nominees and you vote for your favorite. They’re running it again this year for 2009.
Of course it’s just a great link bait idea and really serves no purpose other than getting traffic out to their site. I don’t think the winner gets anything except some bragging rights (emphasis on “some” since this thing holds no real value).
Well, Shoemoney and John Chow (who are both on the list of nominees, btw) decided to vote up a guy who goes by the name ZK and get their blog readers behind it. ZK regularly comments on their blogs and sounds like a decent guy. Without their backing, he likely had zero chance of beating out the other big guys in the Internet Marketer space. They each created a post on their blogs saying “let’s vote this guy up and make him win”. Harmless enough…right?
The result? ZK CRUSHED it. He was winning by an absolute landslide. Until Invesp.com decided to intervene. Now whatever their reasoning or motivation, it doesn’t really matter. They really can’t come out looking good from this situation and it further drives down what little credibility their “survey” had in the first place.
Which leads me to some points/observations:
1. Rule #1 for EVERYTHING you do: Be honest.
I’m not saying Invesp.com is intentionally being deceptive, but their actions don’t look good. Just let the guy win and enjoy all the traffic you’re getting from 2 heavy hitters having a little fun with your survey. I’m sure they’re pissed off because they feel the results are falsely skewed. Whatever. It’s a two-bit survey that doesn’t mean anything…who’s whole purpose is to get you some free traffic and inbound links. Is that really worth your integrity being compromised? No way.
Personally, I think integrity and honesty are two traits the Internet Marketing space could use a little more of. There are lots of shady people out there who want to make a quick buck. Don’t be one of them. Don’t even flirt with the line by being partnered with someone on something that is shady. In fact, don’t do anything that even looks shady. You get the point.
2. Don’t piss off the big guys.
Sure Shoemoney and John Chow are not the end-all be-all in blogging or Internet Marketing, but do you seriously want those guys and their readership who tend to be VERY loyal to them and what they have to say upset with you or think you’re jacking with them? Why not play nice and get them on your side. You’ll be a lot better off in the long run.
That said, nothing is worth compromising on #1. Even if that means pissing off the big guys.
3. Remember the “little people” and help them out whenever you can.
The real winner, either way here, is ZK. That guy just got some serious exposure that I hope helps him tremendously. I love that Chow and Shoe both got behind him.
As you grow in your experience, knowledge, success, etc., every step along the way there will be people newer, smaller, less experienced, etc. than you. Look for opportunities to help them out whenever you can. Remember we all had to start somewhere and just because you’ve made a 4, 5, 6 figure check in a month from your efforts, doesn’t make you better than anyone else.
Pay It Forward (I loved the premise of that movie).


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